Thank you guys, you make the game of golf less frustrating and more inspiring.
I now realize why I my right hand was a bit "weaker" when I felt pure swinging. My right index knuckle was located quarter turn towards the top of the shaft. and I was swinging down and.a bit steeper.
My left hand and wrist also shifted a bit more to the top of the shaft in a "stronger" position. This was to facilitate the all DRAG loading/release force,the direction of my pure swinging motion was downward.
No or little lag was felt.
If I turned my right hand a bit so I feel PP#3 at the aft of the shaft I feel I have to shallow out my swing in order to use/feel LAG pressure. In other words, drive load/release tends to match with a more level hit for me than a downward blow.
Pure swinging without pp3 feels more like a downward blow.