Jay must be kicking himself for barely missing 3 putts within 12 feet. Two of which would have won the tourney and the other to extend the playoff.
I sincerely hope not.
Life is short, no question, and you must play hard to win. But, if you do your dead-level best -- in his own words, "I fought as hard as I could" -- and then insist on kicking yourself anyway, then, IMHO, you are headed for the nut house.
Jay shot 66 in the final round of a major PGA TOUR event. He lost to a 65 that he stared down mano-o-mano for 18 holes and took to within ten feet of the 73rd hole.
A victory would have been sweet, but he should sleep well.
After all...
His pillow is stuffed with a PGA TOUR card and $648,000!